Be honest to yourself about who you are. Be honest with others about who you are.
Be courageous in the face of your fears. Be courageous in spite of who is against you.
Value yourself and keep sound values.
Forgive yourself for past, present deeds done and move on. Forgive others for deeds done against you and move on.
Sometimes you need to revisited earlier lessons.
Let your hair down more often than not.